Summer is here! Whether you or your gifted child are taking summer school courses, attending camp, traveling or enjoying activities with family and friends, summertime is a great opportunity to enjoy some extra reading. Do you have a long road trip coming up? Listen to an audiobook. Will you have time to kill at the airport? Reading a book will help pass the time. Are you and your friends on the hunt for a new endeavor? Start a book club to read and discuss novels together. In case you need some convincing to read beyond your assigned summer reading for school, here are you should be reading more:

1. Reading reduces stress.
2. Reading, especially books, may add years to your life.
3. Reading improves your language skills and knowledge of the world.
4. Reading enhances empathy.
5. Reading boosts creativity and flexibility.
6. Reading can help you transform as a person.

I personally enjoy reading because it鈥檚 a gratifying and necessary way for me to unplug. I love the moment when I discover I鈥檝e been reading for hours on end because I鈥檝e been so enveloped in a story and lost track of time. Sometimes there鈥檚 nothing better than devouring a good book!

Here are a few summer reads I鈥檝e compiled to help inspire your and your gifted child鈥檚 summer reading list:

• Her Right Foot by Dave Eggers (Gr K鈥�3): A moving and conversational description of the history of the Statue of Liberty and how some of the smallest details contribute to her symbolism as a welcoming beacon to the world.
• Hello, Universe by Erin Entrada Kelly (Gr 3鈥�7): Told from four intertwining points of view鈥攖wo boys and two girls鈥攖he novel celebrates bravery, being different and finding your inner bayani (hero).
• The Miscalculations of Lightning Girl by Stacy McAnulty (Gr 4鈥�6): Lucy Callahan was struck by lightning. She doesn’t remember it, but it changed her life forever. The zap gave her genius-level math skills and, ever since, Lucy has been homeschooled. Now, at 12-years-old, she’s technically ready for college. She just has to pass one more test鈥攎iddle school!
• Fish in a Tree by Lynda Mullaly Hunt (Gr 5鈥�6): Ally struggles to hide her dyslexia by continually getting in trouble, until a substitute teacher discovers what she is really hiding.
• Boying Up: How to Be Brave, Bold and Brilliant by Mayim Bialik (Gr 7鈥�9): Mayim Bialik, star of The Big Bang Theory and author of the #1 bestseller Girling Up, puts her Ph.D. to work to talk to teen boys about the science and pressures of growing up male in today’s world.

Happy reading!

Do you have a favorite novel or book you are looking forward to reading this summer? Share it with us in the comments below!

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It’s a scientific fact that 20% of the population is聽born with a gene that allows them to “process sensory data much more deeply and thoroughly”聽than other people do. 聽We also know that a common thread that runs among gifted people is their ability to understand the world more deeply and thoroughly than others, a trait that is simply sensitivity by another name. 聽Unfortunately, our society tends to view sensitive children as “weak” or prissy in many ways.

This mis-categorization聽ignores the fact that highly sensitive people are often highly successful people, specifically because of their creative and perceptive temperament. 聽Abraham Lincoln, Martin Luther King, Jr., Steve Martin, Robert Frost, Frank Lloyd Wright, Mozart and Elton John are all highly sensitive.

Highly sensitive people have a number of very sought-after traits, including soaring creativity, intense focus, careful conscientiousness, empathetic kindness, and the ability to understand the world around them very deeply.

TYPICAL SIGNS聽of聽SENSITIVITY

Summarized from Dr. Elaine Aron, a leading research scientist in the field of high sensitivity

• Processes things deeply. Thinks long and hard about things. Very concientious and can be slow to answer quesions. 聽Generally responds with accurate, unusual, or creative ideas.

• Overstimulated very easily. 聽Doesn’t handle time pressure or deadlines well. 聽Don’t rush them! 聽Group work is unpleasant for them; they prefer a quiet space to think. 聽Noise is distracting, and chaotic situations are a nightmare. 聽Needs lots of personal space and downtime.

• Reacts emotionally. 聽Takes criticism very personally. 聽Cries easily, even if feedback is kind and positive. 聽Has tremendous empathy for others, and tends to worry how others are doing. 聽Will make a point to give direct and positive feedback to others.

• Aware of subtleties.聽 Notices very small differences in surroundings, including minor rearranging, changes to lighting or smells. 聽Reads people in a similar way; almost seems to be a mind-reader.

BENEFITS OF BEING SENSITIVE

• We are more creative. 聽Brainstorming聽takes introspection, and the process of combining and editing ideas requires solitude. 聽The sensitive or introverted person is ideally situated to take his deep experience of the world, quietly turn it over in his brain until it blooms into an explosion of new ideas, then shape it into a workable solution.

• We have an exuberant and聽lavish inner life. 聽We are vivid dreamers and daydreamers, we have inventive imaginations, and we recall memories in great detail.聽We are happy to spend time contemplating instead of acting, which helps us see connections between important things, which makes us smarter.

• We are more emotionally aware.聽Emotional intelligence, or the ability to recognize our own emotions as well as those of others, is a聽significant indicator of success in relationships and in the workplace. 聽People with high emotional intelligence are better decision-makers, better problem-solvers, and enjoy more聽fulfilling relationships.

• We’re really hardworking. 聽Some might call us perfectionists, but we aren’t happy until things are clean, organized and RIGHT. That makes us favored students, esteemed colleagues, and excellent managers. We are also careful and conscientious, which again is a strong marker of success in life. We’re also really good at noticing small errors.

• We notice more sensory detail. The world is full of amazing things, and we can see them all. Whether it’s gorgeous artwork, or the scent of an amazing meal, or the indulgent softness of a favorite blanket, sensitive people experience the world around them more deeply, and as a聽result can derive more happiness from beautiful things than other聽people can.

• We feel emotion physically.聽Instead of simply hearing and enjoying music, we literally get goosebumps from beautiful lyrics or harmonies. 聽Hugs become physical healers, and holding hands produces a flow of energy that we can almost see. 聽It’s a wonderful way to experience life deeply.

• We understand nuances in meaning. Highly sensitive people聽can read other聽people like a book. 聽Micro-differences in facial expressions or vocal timbre tell us volumes about the validity and real聽meaning behind what other聽people are telling us. 聽This gives us an advantage, in that it is much harder to fool or cheat us. 聽We recognize inauthentic people and can avoid them, and we have additional information at our disposal that we can use to聽make important聽decisions.

• We have superhuman intuition. Our gut instincts are spot-on, which can save us from a lot of heartbreak and hassle. 聽It’s like having six senses instead of five!

• We have greater empathy.聽We can sense emotion in other people, and that makes us great friends, teachers and parents. 聽We act out of a deep sense of understanding for where another person is coming from, and are more likely to do exactly the right thing.

• We are incredibly compassionate. 聽We have a sincere need to support, guide and comfort others, and it makes us very useful, as well as appreciated.

• We are awesome partners. 聽We are great listeners, we’re kind and thoughtful, and we naturally want to help people. 聽How many girls do you know who are dreaming of a boyfriend who is self-centered, oblivious and aggressive? 聽None. 聽YOU are the ultimate boyfriend!

• We experience love very deeply. 聽Because we understand the聽ones we love so well, and because we naturally tend to want to make other聽people happy, we form very strong bonds of love. 聽This love is reflected back to us, as our parents, children聽and partners appreciate what we give to them, and want to make us as happy as we make them. It’s a blessing to be able to be surrounded by such deep love.

DIFFICULTIES OF BEING SENSITIVE聽

• Boys aren’t supposed to be sensitive. 聽Our society still perpetuates the misguided notion that men and boys should be tough, stoic, aggressive and hardy. 聽To be otherwise is to be labeled weak, or fussy, or feminine.

• We can mistakenly feel that there is something wrong with us. Because only 15 – 20% of the population is聽highly sensitive, we may not know many聽people in our orbit who are like us. Between the messages society sends us聽about the importance of extroverted behavior, and our own tendency to analyze input from other people very carefully, we may conclude that we are abnormal or even damaged. This is catastrophic for our self-esteem.

• We are often misunderstood. We may be labeled “over-sensitive” or “over-dramatic” by people who don’t realize how deeply we feel, because it’s not their reality.聽聽If we are introverts (80% of sensitive people are) we may be deemed reclusive or standoffish; if we are empaths we may be labeled histrionic or attention-seekers.

• We are susceptible to getting stuck in relationships with toxic people. 聽Narcissists in particular are drawn to sensitive people because we give them the focused care and attention they crave, and are less likely to break off an unbalanced relationship because our natural perfectionism, work聽ethic, and tendency to see the best in people lead us to conclude that if WE just work a little harder, things will turn around. We are often in danger of giving more than we receive.

• We need more聽time alone to decompress. Space to breathe and let go of the stresses that we have internalized is essential to our well-being, but our modern lifestyle can make it impossible to find enough time to take care of ourselves. 聽In addition, the desire for solitude can be misinterpreted as anti-social behavior.

• Anxiety can present itself as real physical ailments. Because we internalize so much emotion from the world around us, our bodies can reach the limit of what they can hold. 聽Stress and anxiety can display themselves as stomach aches, IBS, muscle aches, fibromyalgia,聽migraines, and more.

• Sensitive people absorb聽negative emotions from others. This can happen聽just by being in the same room as聽people who are arguing or crying, or even by watching emotionally broken people on television or in the movies. 聽We not only notice and are uncomfortable watching other people get upset (or embarrassed), but we FEEL what they feel, despite clearly understanding that whatever is happening is not happening to us.

• There is no such thing as constructive criticism. Sensitive people take聽feedback as a personal judgment. 聽Because we are programmed to want to do things well (we can be聽perfectionists) and receive approval, we are very hurt when聽someone points out a mistake we made.

• Sensitivity can really get out of hand. 聽鈥淓motional Snowballing鈥� may occur in stressful situations, where the emotional response increases to a level disproportionate to the events at hand. Popular situations (such as crowded public events) can become overwhelming, and result in a dire need to escape to somewhere quiet and peaceful.

This post originally appeared on Raising Wizards; it has been reposted with permission.

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